Trunks and Tails
To be a baby elephant must be wonderful. Surrounded by a loving family 24 hours a day... I think it must be how it ought to be, in a perfect world. Daphne Sheldrick
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OMG too sweet! I whispered when my long lens discovered a tiny calf faithfully following its mother’s heels. With every step the cow’s tail swished rhythmically back and forth across the baby’s back. An elephant’s tail is minimal compared to some tail carriers, but it plays an essential role in connecting a baby to its mother. The stiff tail hairs are just the right height to touch the baby’s back giving it reassurance and guidance as the family travels in the endless search for water and grazing. Mama can feel the baby at her heels and the baby can feel mama’s protective presence.
As we pulled over to the side of the road to get a better look at the elephants the little calf pulled ahead tucking into the shadow of its mother’s body. Elephants, like humans have their own personality, and this youngster radiated curiosity and a sense of adventure.
Maybe it could smell the water in the distance, maybe it was curious about our vehicle parked close by. Perhaps it simply wanted to explore the world from out front rather than the rearview. As a parent I recalled moments when my own toddlers would bolt for freedom not knowing if it was safe or not.
As the little elephant took front position Mama reached out and placed her trunk on the baby’s bum. It was neither a push nor a restraint, more like one of those retractable leashes I’ve seen with dog walkers. Through touch she communicated, yes, you can have some freedom but I’m still right here with you.
When the family traversed the road, Mama added a helpful nudge over the mound at the verge.
The baby crossed the road with the herd and clambered up far embankment on its own. Success! A new skill!
As the herd migrated onto the Amboseli Plain the tiny elephant strode ahead exuding confidence and energy.
The more I observe elephants in the wild, the more I am inspired by how they raise their young. As a therapist I know a loving and safe environment growing up is the greatest predictor of success later in life.
Elephant society has many parallels with humans. The largest mammals on earth have a lot to teach us about love, compassion and living in community. How about you? I’d love to hear about lessons you have learned from Nature.
Just love those 'little' babies! And their amazing mums.
My favorite time watching baby elephants is when they start entering the massive Amboseli swamps. It takes great courage to slide down the swamp edge as the mother nudges them along. The tiny little trunk waving just above the water is beautiful to watch. I can just imagine their little feet puddling like crazy under water. It’s always a great lesson in what can be achieved when relationships are centered on trust. Fear is easily conquered.